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Originally Posted by Leed
Hi my friend ~ I hate to say this, but there's no way you're going to change this guy. He is what he is, and that's it.  WE woman always think we can "change" a guy to meet our emotional needs, but unfortunately it can't be done. So -- I think you're stuck with what you have sweetie. Unless he gets some therapy -- which I doubt he will -- this is the way it's going to be. But that doesn't mean that YOU have to keep spending huge amounts of money on HIM and his FAMILY. Personally I think that's foolish, and uncalled for. Perhaps if you stop too, he'll realize how much you care and see how much you've spent on him thru thie relationship. I don't mean to stop spending out of vindictiveness -- it's just to your advantage to save your money!!! If he needs stuff, let HIM buy it!!! Buy yourself some nice things, for heavens sakes!
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I agree 100%. It sounds like you'll only end up with the short end of the stick here.