I think Leed got it right...try as we might, we cannot change who someone is. If he's not emotionally available to you now, it is unlikely he would change.
Have you spoken to him about his aloofness makes you feel? Would he be willing to have that conversation with you?
__________________
The world suffers alot. Not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people.- Napoleon Bonaparte
|