I'm sorry for the pain you are feeling at the moment Suzy5654, I too used to be a very sexual person, but I also feel horrible about my weight, my partner & I are going through all kinds of issues, coz I lack the motivation to make a move in the bedroom, which hurts my partner, coz he believes I'm not interested in him sexually anymore, which could not be further from the truth, I just hate my body so much!!!
I am trying to get better, but everytime I feel like I'm back on track, my partner gets upset with me & then the blame game starts!!
Sounds like you & I could work together to find our sexuallity again & to keep our partners interested!!

Flinty