Hi. Maybe somebody in here can help. I was with my boyfriend for a little over two years. We've had our share of ups and downs but recently it has been almost unbearable. We broke up about a month ago because he told me that he wanted to see other girls. Of course, I was crushed and it just made me sick to hear that. I left him, and a month later he started e-mailing me all of these crazy things. He said that he only said that because he was mad and that he wanted to be with me and saw me and him in the future. We got together to talk and he's asking me to move in with him and he wants to get married one day. I was in shock and I didn't give him an answer because of our situation. So, for the past month we've been hanging out at least once a week trying to figure out what we are gonna do. A week ago he tells me that I'll probably meet somebody else in a year and end up marrying him and totally forget everything. Basically, he's been giving me mixed signals..everything he says is a contradiction and I don't know what's right and what's not. I tried telling this to him but he's like it's all right, everything I say is the truth. I know he came from a broken home and has had a really bad relationship in the past. I just wonder if that's the cause of all of our problems. It seems like he wants to be with me more when I'm not around and when I am it's the same old thing, but yet he tells me that he loves me. I don't understand because he doesn't understand himself why he thinks this way. He just started going to therapy a few days ago but I don't know if it would help because I'm not sure if it's too late for us.
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