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Oct 10, 2012, 11:31 PM
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Member Since: May 2010
Location: Some where between my inner mind and the solar system.
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My first T knew before I did. I was going because my ex was abusing me and I needed to leave him. But at the time I was having flashbacks and alters, losing time, disassociating and just in general not doing to well although if any one had asked me, I would have said my life was "fine". I was the most clueless one around.
After that, it depends on the T, some of them I never told or talked about it with them. Others were easier to be with and "safer" whatever that is for you. I've known people who can call T's and tell them their background history and ask if it's something that they could deal with, it's different for each person and every relationship between a client and T. My current T I think I may have told her the broad outlines minus details when I started, it took a few months to establish a relationship before I got to the details but there are things I've never yet talked about with anyone.
I wish you luck and a good match with your T. 
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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