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Old Oct 11, 2012, 07:43 AM
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My T will have stuff happen to him that I also pick up on. I am what my mom calls a "sensitive" so I tend to know things before they happen in a lot of different areas. I found out that it did freak out my T a bit when I told him what I dreamt about if it was too close to her personal stuff. He was shocked I was so accurate. But I let him know I did respect his space. So now I will bring up those things a few sessions after the dream so it does give him space. I bring them up in regards to my own needs and don't expect him to confirm anything. I found that by doing it this way, it kinda brings us closer together. It is a relationship, so we sensitives are going to pick up on things like this. It is a part of who we are. So we do have a right to bring them up in therapy. We just have to do it with grace.
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