I also agree w/eskie, my wife is going nuts over the fact that she deals with someone who has ADHD. I can't help it, that how I am and that's how things are. But, blowing off treatment is not good. You could educate yourself on ADHD through the channels of the web and relay it to your husband. That might work? Also, seeing a psych who has great knowledge of Aduld ADHD (the gift) would be a great benefit. I bid you luck!!!!

KJ