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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
I did well in school too, i think it is because that is where i was praised by teachers. My parents liked my c average sisters better because they weren't trying to be better then anyone else. I too was in band french horn.  |
Yeah, I think this is pretty key. School was one place where the amount of praise I got from teachers was proportional to the effort I put in or talent I had. It was possible to get 100% on something. It felt less arbitrary and confusing than at home, where I could never be good enough.