Take good care of yourself Suzy: not eating won't help. I think it's great your hubs is willing to go to the therapist with you. And it will do you good to go back, by the sounds of it, and address some of the issues that have been troubling you lately. But no starving yourself, ya hear? Remember, a lot of larger women are beautiful. Besides, how does your hubs expect to cope when you're 80? We all lose our looks to some extent, so he'd better start getting used to loving you for who you are, rather than how you look.
Flinty, have you spoken with your husband about how you're feeling about your body? You may well discover that although you feel unattractive, he still finds you desirable. If you can manage to make a move, you might find your intimacy getting back on track.
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