Do you have a vunerable ( spelling?) child mode?
The goal or what the therapist strives for is to for you to reach that mode and this is where she can do her job. From what I understand she canīt do anything really when you are in detached mode= taking control and stuff.
Just from what I read and I have been in ST too. Never really totally understood it, but it sort of did work for me
ST ususally takes two years depending on the dx and stuff and has a really high succes rate. Itīs a bit different from other therapies. Hang in there and let the T do her thing too.