Naw I haven't been to therapy yet because I usually go today (Friday) but she has training this week, so I go back next Friday.

Lonelybychoice yeah that is the main issue I am having in therapy. The healing doesn't even start to begin until she can access the vulnerable child mode and I cannot get there. Not sure if I even have one. And once we get there there is nothing she can really do that matters because all they are supposed to do is give me is empathy but I am not into that. I asked her if there is anything we could talk about instead of the empathy that is healing but she gave me some airyfairy answer that dodged the question. The dodging questions thing with her is really irritating me and I am considering getting rid of her and finding someone else.

Abby I think you are supposed to replace the detached protector with the healthy adult but you cannot develop a healthy adult until you get rid of the problems with the vulnerable child. We talk a lot about the detached protector mode because I am in it 24 hours a day and she doesn't see anything else hehe.. it is all very confusing and abstract!