Wi-fighter,
"Fake it to you make it" was my motto for years!! I almost hate telling people to use that method..but it actually works..at least it did for me..People were cruel..weren't they?well, they know not to mess with me now..

I found it amazing how many compliments, dates, friends I made and crap I got involved in after I came out of my shell..my world just changed..I guess it just takes belief in ones self,huh?!