Hi all, I hate to post about this, but maybe someone here will have insights. A year ago, I became involved with a fella and quickly became involved sexually. I was in over my head and got hurt badly when he revealed he didn't feel love for me. I spent the past year going thru the grief process and now am better. I've posted here that I am no longer looking for a relationship, but the truth is....I'm afraid of another intimate relationship. It was just too damn painful. In my recovery process, I've programmed myself to abhorr the idea of intimacy! Now, though a couple of fellas are calling me, I'm putting them off. One is an old high school friend, recently divorced, who wants to "sew his oats" and have a good time. I like him, but I've been there/done that!
Any thoughts are appreciated.
Patty