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Old Oct 12, 2012, 05:55 AM
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Originally Posted by Asiablue View Post
I don't even know where to start, except that i feel heartbroken today.

I disclosed some really heavy stuff in an email to my T yesterday. She responded pretty quick and said and did the right things. But then my self-loathing and guilt at telling her kicked in and a couple of emails later, she said i think we should discuss this in session, let me know if you want to bring your session forward. It felt like a withdrawal on her part, like a subtle "get to F ***, i don't have time for you right now". And omg that just sent me in to overdrive. I sent a *****y email and quit. I am soooooooooooooo angry with her, even tho i have no right to be because she does so much for me. She told me to think about this pattern before deciding to quit.

I don't even know why i'm angry at her. But i am. She sent me a message to tell me to take care of myself in light of certain triggering things that are happening in the news. And i feel like saying " WTF do you care whether i look after myself or not?" Which is horrible cos i think she prob does care on some level.

The anger and hurt right now is intolerable. Why am i so horrible? Why am i pushing her away so much. She doesn't deserve the crap i'm throwing at her.
Seems like you can't decide if you want to push or pull at your T. "She responded pretty quick and said and did the right things. I am soooooooooooooo angry with her, even tho i have no right to be because she does so much for me. i think she prob does care on some level. Why am i pushing her away so much. She doesn't deserve the crap i'm throwing at her."

T's generally don't like to get into deep discussion through email. I know this is probably triggering and seems like she is just pushing you away. But she did offer you an earlier appt. I'd take her up on the offer
Thanks for this!
Asiablue