Your husband doesnt mean to be insensitive.I prefer my bipolar self to the chemically castrated 1,it was uncomfortable (understatement) & I'm the 'better the devil you know' type anyway.So I can imagine what its like for someone so close, to not recognize us,& miss us.Some people just love us warts and all meds take time to hit a sweet spot,& even then you have to adjust,I couldnt.If meds give you a better quality of life, then keep at it YES,you WILL be happy again you're dxd bipolar