I didn't mean to put words into your mouth. It seemed like you knew the answer, saying it doesn't take a clinical Psy. to figure it out. I don't know the answer! I hug her when we arrive on our trip, and when we leave. She's never said "don't hug me" or "don't touch me". I'm guessing. It just seems like you and others have it figured out, and I don't, which frustrates me and makes me feel bad.

MKAC, you said that about not needing to be a T to figure it out. Please tell me what you think.