I just want to say agian, your visit was too long. I love and enjoy our oldest and her children. My sil is a wonderful man. They usually visit for 4-5 days and by the end I am sorry they are leaving, yet relieved to no longer have company. I adore them, hug them, think the world of them. They are my favorite visitors and I wish they would come more frequently. But 4-5 days is more than enough. I could not handle anyone staying in my house any longer, no matter how much I love them. Add possible ocd, high stress jobs and young children into that...yikes. I think you simply overstayed your welcome.

I think you would be hard-pressed to find anyone that could tolerate company for that length of time.