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Leed · Oct 12, 2012, 10:06 AM

Hi Bridget ~ You said you told your parents about your issues when you were about 11 yrs old. They basically downplayed it and swept it under the rug. I have a feeling they just didn't want to deal with it back then, so they figured you would "outgrow" it and it was "just a phase" -- I imagine they think now that you've "gotten over it" and that you're ok.

If you tell them now, yes it will be a surprise in a way but maybe not. You can remind them that you told them when you were 11 yrs old -- and that this type of thing doesn't just "go away." I'm not saying that you should make them feel guilty, but they really should have had you assessed back then. I think you should tell the about all of it so they know exactly what's going on. You might let something slip in a conversation, and then they'd wonder what you're talking about.

So it would be best to just tell them the truth. And why on earth would they make you come home? You're doing okay and the treatment you're getting sounds wonderful! It sounds just what you need! I wouldn't think they'd want to take THAT away from you! Besides you're in your dream school in your dream city -- dont let them ruin things for you!

Please keep us updated on how things go, will you? I wish you the very best. It sure sounds like you're doing well Bridget, and that you're handling things great! I'm proud of you as you have a lot on your plate! God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee