I think it's a hard one to answer.
I have had 5 t's in my time. The only 2 I didn't like were P and J.
P tried to tell me what I have been through is no more traumatic then a husband losing his wife of 50 years, or a firefighter who can't save someone. He also said that his gf went through something similar. I walked out.. It was the third session
J did not get me or my way of coping. It was only 16 sessions (limited due to funding), so I just got off my chest what I needed to and my suspicions were confirmed that she had no idea what she was on about from her discharge letter.

So I suppose it is a question only you can answer. If your t doesn't get you or talks down to you then I wouldn't put up with it. It is a waste of your time. You are better off spending the time looking for someone you can connect with. With two t's I connected at around 6-8 sessions. I 'test' them a little to begin with then I know if I should go ahead or not.

I hope you figure things out.

Hang in there