she cant aswer WHY she said something? Is she doing this intentionally hoping you will make the connection? This would mean she does know and wont tell you... my T kinda did this until I told him to not make me guess, if he sees the connections between things he needs to tell me, as I can handle it. He said that therapist help people make connections, I told him id rather he tell me and ill agree or disagree and he complied. So, does she not know why she says Lichen or does she know why but wants you to figure it out for yourself? I mean if thats it she just needs to say it.