I was in an emotionally abusive relationship in which one of the key words my boyfriend used to use to hurt me was "insecure." I told my therapist about this. The problem is that I have internalized the word insecure and so when I'm talking to my therapist without thinking my thoughts through, I use this word sometimes to describe myself or how I feel about things. The last time I saw my therapist, she told me that I seem "insecure" about my current relationship. And now I feel very irritated by her and pissed off at her for using it. Am I entitled to feel this way about it?