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Originally Posted by hankster
lola, and murray and anybody who was listening, why does there have to be a GAIN for the other person? that's very altruistic. why not, hey I want to win this argument ie discussion and shut you up already. That would be "gain" enough for most people, wouldn't it, or am I too cynical?
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Gaslighting is what murray was referring to and I would think someone would have to have an ulterior motive that was pretty significant to make one want another to question their own thoughts and or reality. Winning of a simple argument seems like a minor gain to me.