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You've got to stop being so possessive. You're pushing her away. If you keep trying to stop her from enjoying her life, she's going to leave -- and it will be back to where you were with your ex -- dumped.
You need to see a therapist and see what it is about why you're so possessive and controlling. Obviously it has to do with haing been left by girls before, but even before that -- were there issues in your childhood where you felt abandoned? Your therapist can help you deal with those issues, should there be any -- or perhaps you've forgotten them, and the therapist can help you remember them and THEN deal with them. But this controlliing of people has got to stop. I know you don't WANT to be like this. It doesn't do a relationship any good. So talk to a therapist -- you won't regret it.
I wish you the very best. Keep us posted, ok? God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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