thank you ((((Sky)))),(((white iris))), and (((Evangelista)))...I am so alone here IRL and to have your encouraging words, well there are no true words to explain how it helps me..thank you for taking the time to respond to me, I treasure your words..I am taking a slight break from therapy to evaluate what I need..which is a first for me..my son is a psychology major who wants to work with children who have been abused..He has encouraged me to work with a therapist who is experienced with trauma..but honestly, I need this place to help me..I work 2 jobs to support my 5 precious children, and though I cannot respond much here, I still seek support from you all..and I want to say a heartfelt, "thank you" to those who respond to my posts..I am blessed to be here....ALL of your words have tremendously helped me, they sure have....