I see what you both are saying. Everytime we break up he always comes back to me for some reason. Like, he can't handle the fact that I'm not around and tells me it feels wrong and the we are "fighting fate" because we are supposed to be together. I don't know if how long I am willing to wait or how long it would take for therapy to help him. I believe he can rebuild the trust and by going to therapy shows me that he is willing to try. I know there is another issue that he has been dealing with which is his mother passed away a few years ago and I don't think he has fully tried to cope with it. The whole situation is just a big mess.