T finally called this afternoon, btw. He said his schedule got rearranged so he couldn't read the list until this afternoon. He also said nothing in the list changes his 'care' for me. By the time he called, I was so irate that I didn't really care if anything in the list bothered him. Can't tell if that is good news or bad news.

In any event, I've had a really nice evening, and hope everyone on here is feeling pretty good. No one is a loser for being home on a Friday, either! We are just being home-bodies, and that is perfectly acceptable.