Hey tink,

I wish I knew what to say. I mean your t is following protocol, but that doesn't help you right now. I know how infuriating it is, being from the uk myself, and being refused a referal because I'm not mentally stable enough right now.
But once you are discharged then you can go back and talk to your t about your anger at the situation and tell her how it made you feel, especially the trust thing. Talking it out with her when you get back might make you feel better.

I hope it works out for you

Hang in there