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Originally Posted by likelife
I think it's great that you're so relaxed about the whole thing. I'd love to be able to see my T as human (rumor has it she is), but I seem to really struggle with that idea.
This past summer, my T and I had coincidentally signed our kids up for the same park and rec week-long camp. I saw my T a couple of times at drop off and pick up, and it kind of weirded me out, especially seeing her kids.
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I have seen my T in public with her daughter/s too and it used to weird me out but it doesn't any more. In some ways I do feel a tiny bit jealous. For example she was talking in class about her daughter going on a trip with a friend and some of the activities she did. I felt jealous not of her daughter per se but the fact that my T is such a good mom to her kids. I never in a million years would have had that type off opportunity growing up. I could tell my T was beaming and proud of her daughter. In some small way I wish I had that growing up. My mother wasn't of the supportive loving hug type. 
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"Be careful how you speak to your children. One day it will become their inner voice." - Peggy O'Mara
Don't ever mistake
MY SILENCE for ignorance,
MY CALMNESS for acceptance,
MY KINDNESS for weakness.
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