Is there something else going on hon? I'm with Rhap, how is his checking in with your Dr, if he is concerned, a bad thing? Do you guys have a "butt out" deal or something?

Re: His not responding to your need to move, are you financially able? Maybe he knows something you don't about your financial situation, like you can't move, or maybe there's some other issue of his that is not on the table yet??? Do you guys sit down and discuss stuff?