I think it all has to do with balance. Too much of anything is usually a bummer. Too much love included. Labels are tricky because we hear them according to where we are in our healing, somebody else may interpret them completely differently while using the same exact words.

Co dependancey is one of those tricky words that describes an emotional state of being. My understanding of what it means to me has morphed as I see more life as the years go by.

I think the bottom line has to do with giving each other enough room to do our individual growning, while suppoting each other with all our hearts. Some things are just soooooo hard to hands off and watch....... I think it's that jumping in to help, when a person should work it out on their own, that gets one into the codependant realm......