I think it is important for you to figure out what it is you want in this relationship. Can he give that too you? Do you think after he goes to therapy he can? Are you willing to wait? Once you decide what it is that you want then you can take firm actions toward that. If you decide to wait let him know but give him a time limit so that you are not hanging on waiting and waiting. If you decide to break it off the be up front about it and don't back away from the decision. Be firm with him and with yourself. These are just some ideas. Does anyone else have any ideas different then mine. I find it funny that I write this down then realize how badly I deal with relationships. LOL.
zen

<font color=blue>"I am just so tired."
<font color=green>"You can say you're tired as much as you want but you still have to do something about it. Now can you think of any way to deal with this problem."
<font color=blue> "No"
<font color=green>"Then I don't know what I can do for you if you are not willing to try."--from Zen's therapy session