There are plenty of other things you can do on campus, special interest groups, rallying etc Surely your friends don't party all the time? I would meet up with them for coffee or go to the movies or something. I would try and do the same with girls too - most girls prefer getting to know someone before they take things further. I think if you pressure yourself too much to be happy you'll end up feeling the exact opposite. Sometimes just taking it back to basics like dividing the day into sections and performing useful tasks to timetable make the day feel shorter. It would be nice though if you could socialise more often - most people only get one chance at college so i would make the most of getting to meet new people. Theres sure to be people who share your tastes and opinions is just putting that effort in to find them. Good luck.