well, what can i say...you showed immense strength, so be proud of yourself Tanya.

Seeing our abuser is always going to be hard, as it will force us to re-live the abuse we suffered.

I think it is wrong that people like him are able to speak politely and normally to their victims after ruining their life, it just shows that they have no guilt or remorse for what they did.

From talking to you through posts etc i have learnt that you are a brave character, and you are strong, and this situation shows your strength. i am proud of you.

Anger is a common emotion when confronted witht his situation, and it is very understandable that you want to hunt him down and make him pay. the victim of abuse usually grows to hate the abuser and wants to gain revenge for the pain they caused. it is normal to feel like this when you think about him and what happened. especially when you see him in person.

Try to move on from this encounter, they are few and far between and each time you see him your strength will rise, and the anger will slowly fade. it will never go away entirely but it will get easier.

Take care Tanya, and im here if you need me, anytime.

Simon