Dan I am sorry, I just saw this and your other post about the smoking, ans leaving with the kids. Confusing to say the least, how would your head and heart not be spinning in circles.

I wonder the whole smoking thing.. Is maybe just a catalist for something else that may be bugging her? Cause that seems like a very drastic response.

I hope she will start communicating with you soon. I really hope you two can work this out. Yes good for you for keeping calm, that is very very hard to do.

Hang in there, we are here for you ok.