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Leed · Oct 13, 2012, 05:46 PM

Dearheart -- you CAN survive without him. What GOOD is he to you? All he does is criticize and abuse you. You ARE being abused, you know. Where he comes from, women are nothing -- so to you, you are "nothing." You are only there to suit his needs. He's angry that you don't know how to cook his kind of meal --- he's mad that you aren't of his culture. He's mad that you don't know this or that or another. He's just plain mad. So let him go back where he belongs!!! But tell him to leave you enough money so you can get back to your family!!!

This man isn't for you, and I don't understand how you can "love" this man. How can you "love" a man who abuses you? Have you been in abusive relatiionships before?

You might think about seeing a therapist. If you have been in abusive relationships before, perhaps theres some reason why you keep getting into these kiind of fixes. Therapy could help you find out why.

But believe me, you CAN survive without this guy, and you'll survive much BETTER. This guy wouldn't let you live -- he's only let you survive and not very well either. You'd be at his beck and call -- plus you'd be his slave. Get out of this -- and find your way back home with your family. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee