Okay thank you. I will try. Its really difficult to know what is nornal, how long to make soneone wait. I know a lot off people say when your ready etc etc but i dont know when im ready, i dont really know how to say no to men. I think a lot off me is scared to incase they just do it anyway. Whereas i feel like a girk coukdnt hurt me, even tgough im sure they could. Its odd.
Just so ypu know as well im a female not a man soo being with a woman wouldnt be heterosexual apologies for my lack off clarity!!