I think dreaming about situations is the way to tell you are totally stressed about it. I had 3 different dreams about this situation last night. The first dream I was in my husband's group and his T was talking but he had a heavy accent and I couldn't understand anything he was saying... so I asked him to repeat it and he said it slower but I still couldn't understand it yet everyone around me was nodding their heads like they understood.

The second dream I had was that I had been hanging out/spending time with one of the guys from my husbands group therapy but he told me we couldn't hang out anymore because my xT told him we shouldn't be hanging out...that it wasnt a good idea... (my xT told me that he had a friend in my husbands group therapy)

The third dream was I was back in my husbands group again and they were talking about how the practice was expanding and going to have more locations but that the website was going to stay the same...

I think I'm officially stressed out about this...

I know my husband has talked about me lots of times in group and it has never bothered me before because its always been his perspective of the situation but if I am supposed to list the things that I think are affecting the relationship now....that is me opening up about a lot of things that truely hurt me and me being vulnerable (even though I'm not there) to be shared with a group of guys who may sit there and roll their eyes and say comments about it... it would really hurt if his T said something that invalidates my feelings...