Yes, he's a charmer. I even tell him he is, and that's he's just trying to manipulate me to get his own way. Anyway, I do notice a pattern with me. Every guy I've been with has been heartbroken by another woman. It's not like I seek out these men intentionally, but I must be sending some signals out that say, "Hey, come cry on my shoulder!!" Then, over time, I've developed some kind of inferiority complex. I feel like men will never love me first, I am just the one they settle for because they cannot be with their true love. Like I will always be 2nd best, and they'll be dreaming of the first forever. I don't really know where this comes from. Anyone else feel like this?