I suggest looking for RL relationships. Disagreeing with what some have said, I think that people really are not always their selves when online. That's not to say some are. I'm pointing out that if you are not face to face, sometimes you say things that you would nvr say in RL. Online relationships and long distance relationships *can* work, but I think you will have a better chance at finding a relationship that is true and will *last* in RL

That said, maybe it's time to quit *trying*. Be yourself, follow your gut, and let your life unfold as it will