Just as update...things are improving a little between my wife and I where we are not arguing all the time. Therapy has identified issues on her end where she needs to deal with her frustration a little more tactfully, communication and respect. It has worked sometimes but is something we need to work on daily. Still little affection and no indication of any intimacy...just trying my best to be a great friend, communicate and pray she will become attracted to me again. Maybe it is just me but no affection/intimacy for the past 8-9 months leaves me frustrated,lonely and scared of what's ahead. Another session tomorrow so we will see what that brings. Thanks to all for the words of encouragement and support.....