maybe you took it as yelling. i know when i am defensive and mad, i think ppl are yelling at me when they aren't, that they are mad at me when they aren't, etc.

I think it was fine that you yelled at t. it let him know how you were really feeling, and that will assist both of you in the long run. honesty is key. hopefully he knows how to work with this, and you guys will get thru it.

I have nvr yelled at my t, but she has offered to let me. haha