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Oct 14, 2012, 08:59 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Sweetie, your husband seems very immature. It sounds like he's just not ready to be married. He keeps flirting and gettiing numbers from other girls --- there is no way you're going to change him. You can't change people. Only THEY can change themselves.
You can talk to him and tell him that what he is doing hurts you -- but I have a feeling it is just going to make him mad. He doesn't sound like the kind of guy that is going to be very compassionate. I wouldn't want you to make him mad.
I'm afraid you're just going to have to wait for him to grow up, or you're going to have to LEAVE him. You don't have to put up with this kind of behavior. you DON'T have proof that he's cheating, so if he's just flirting, then you don't have much to worry about. But if you find proof that he IS cheating, then I would leave. But right now, you're ok. So just wait for him to grow up.
I wish you the very best. I'm sorry you married such a little boy. LOL. Take care sweetie and don't worry so much. Hugs, Lee 
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