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Old Oct 15, 2012, 10:59 AM
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Would you be as worried and upset if you didn't know any of his past relationships? What if all his girlfriends were girls you didn't know at all? You wouldn't think anything of it, would you! Of course not. But just because you KNOW these girls, you're worried and upset. Why? It shoulsn't be any different than the girls you don't know. Perhaps if you think of it that way, it won't bother you so much.

Like bb2023 said, there's nothing you can do to change the past. You just have to deal with it and try to put it behind you. If he treats you ok, and there's no emotional/mental/physical abuse, then you should be okay. You don't want this jealousy to affect your relationship. If this continues and it keeps bothering you too much, I suggest you see a therapist and find out what is at the core of this jealousy. Something else could be bothering you.

I wish you the very best. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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