The "lucky ones" learn to "know thyself" and also "love thyself" first and they don't really need to "have a lot of wealth or other things" to make them happy either. When I say "love thyself" I do not mean in a way that says you are better than everyone else either. Love thyself means to give yourself a chance to learn and thrive in your life and to stop being "hard' on yourself if you can't seem to meet up to everyone else's opinions about "what is a successful life" or "who is more valuable because they have all those things you list". None of us are "perfect" and if we spend our life trying to be that way, we wont have a "life".

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