Hi Rapunzel,

Oh my gosh-- you sound just like me here:
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If my husband went to my therapist, I would obsess about whether what I tell her matches with what he tells her. I know that I distort things, but I don't know how much or what is really accurate.

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yes, just how much do I distort and what is accurate?? It does drive me crazy!

I'm having too much anxiety though, about bringing it up to my therapist..... He's helping my husband some........ I don't want to be the reason that his help is interrupted.
I don't see anything I can do right now about it........
I'm hoping my husband won't go to see this T. too many more times.

Thanks for your reply--- feels good to know that I'm not alone in the way I think.

mandy