Hey. I am glad you came here to talk first and foremost. A good T would help alot. I am christian so my views of sexual activity may be a little conservative.

With a our ladies group at church we discussed as part of our lesson why a woman would gear a relationship towards another woman. And the sexuality of that decision as well.

We talked about how women are gentler by nature, how we are nurturing, how we know what women need. The reason women choose another female over a male can have to do with abuse, trust, and kindness. I'm sure there are many more reasons.

Sexually as we know women know there own anatomy better then a male often does so it would only make since a female would know another female's body better. Women do not necessarily need sexual activity to feel love and show love this is another thing that makes this kind of relationship appealing.

This is not what God had planned. Men are warm, us ladies have cold feet literally. Nothing like a warm man to put a cold foot on. Men are stronger. They have greater muscle mass, men are natural born workers (hunter gather types) even it they choose not to work so much. They are fearless and protectors. A woman needs to be with a man. Every man has a soft side and can be gentle and it is our job to help him find that.Men make us feel safe, men make us feel loved and wanted. We are wanted even if it is to bare children.

Men get a bad wrap because they often think with the wrong head. I was raped so I do understand what you are thinking. I married a man. I do not want to be with a woman. I have lots of struggles with being intimate. My H has just learned that lack of sex is something he's gonna have to live with. I just made sure he knew about the rape before we got married. That way I was not springing anything on him.