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Old Oct 16, 2012, 03:31 AM
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Hi ! Personally, I think you should STOP talking to your ex -- he's not doing you one lick of good. He's interfering with your new relationship for some reason. Whatever it is, it's not good.

I say go to your therapy session instead of the "party." And stay with your grandmother this weekend. You need therapy more than you do some party for someone, and your grandmother needs you this weekend. You may not get much more time with her, and you'll regret it if you don't see her soon.

And as for spilling your guts to your new bf -- play it by ear. You don't need to tell him everything all at once, right at the beginning. Wait until you know what his feeling are DEFINITELY -- and then tell him perhaps a little at a time. You be the judge at how much he can take all at once. I wish you the best of luck. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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Thanks for this!
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