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Old Oct 16, 2012, 08:48 AM
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Hi I haven't participated in while
I have come to the realisation that I need to own my problems and work through them rather then blame it on my emotional personalities.
I realized recently that they are all me
Transference that worked when I was a child that no longer works now that I'm an adult.
facing my issues are confronting and I actually feel a sense of empowerment when I do and work through it.
I even to a lesser degree help others who ask me for advice to find a way to solve issues without manipulation or "controlling others" and more often than not it works
Is this what it feels like to be a complete identity? I sure as hell hope so.
Regards Lou
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Thanks for this!
amandalouise, Sierrarose