Hiya, thank you for your response its good to hear other peopkes views.

Yeah i do think its good being honest and open so the man has a chance off understanding. I find that really difficult though because i wouldnt bring it up at the start off a relationship but once ive been with someone a while i dont really wanna tell them then earlier cause im always worried how it will make them feel that theyve had sex with me after everything. Its hard to explain.