ugggh thank you guys, I am going into this a bit blind, I don't even know if they pair you up of you go alone. Yup typical nerves, haven't had to do this in 7 years.

I found some pants YEEEEES!!! No Ears either DH, I totally know what you are talking about! So I feel a little calmer. The last store I went in too, I started to get desperate enough that I even scouted out the boys section in walmart haha. I am glad it did not come to that.

I still have to go back out there and find shoes. Walmart had some, oh but not in size 5. That's ok shoes should be easier.

I practiced my power poses while I was shopping, standing up tall, head high, taking up space. I have been trying to work on my body language for a while, cause my usual body language is small, compact, hunched, head down, don't talk to me, or see me, kinda thing. I will never be really outgoing, but I will try to act the part a little. Ok I never took drama class, I am probably not a great actor, you guys are right, I will just try to assume the role. And try to remember that I can be likeable, and am competent.

Thank you guys, I'll just put my polyester cotton blend pants, with my cross trainers on in the morning, put on a big smile, and remember what you guys said. And try not to think about wearing cross trainers with dress pants, I will pretend they are yoga pants..so I don't feel so awkward. I can't remember the last time I wore dress pants... sunday school maybe.

You guys are great! I love you! You are too sweet to me! I'll do some yoga tonight, eat a good meal, pack a good lunch, and get a good sleep.

Roadie, hehe I am gonna think about pippi all day, what would pippi do, she would pick that horse right up twirl it over her head, and say something like "“But dress pants aren't dangerous,they don't bite anybody except in self defense.”